When the language barrier leads to misunderstandings

A recent headline in the SCMP read:
‘Hong Kong students beat us to it’: Benny Tai declares.
It reminded me of a misunderstanding with a so-called American Chinese lady, on WeChat. While she seemed well educated, her English proficiency wasn’t that good it seems.
In Sanlitun The Village there was an event with male models to promote the opening a new well-known brand. Many people posted pics on WeChat, so did she. I left the comment, well-intended. that others “beat her to the pics”. She was pretty upset about it, did not understand the expression, said she “did not know the others” etc. etc. That was the end of our WeChat connection.

Conclusion was again:

  • The vast majority of Chinese who lived abroad fail to properly assimilate a foreign language, while they are convinced “they are fluent”.
  • Don’t try to make jokes with Chinese people you don’t know really well. It usually ends badly.

I was left pretty annoyed and disappointed with the miscommunication, even trying my best to explain. In vain.

Old China Hands lunch: 3 October

In the middle of the holidays but we had still 19 participants, who took their time for a long lunch and chat. At Morel’s Restaurant as usual, with the direct supervision of Chef Renaat.
Some of the participants got lost however, looks like they went to another Morel’s. Sorry guys, no palm trees here.

Next lunch will be 7 November.
See you!

Old China Hands lunch: 5 September

It was the start of the intense month of September, so, many Old China Hands were busy with meetings but we were far over twenty anyway, with some special guests such as the Belgian and Swedish ambassadors, as well as a former Polish ambassador who beats us all as “Old China Hand”: he came here like in 1955. Remarkable!

Next round: 3 October, right in the middle of the holidays, for those who prefer a quiet Beijing. No meetings or traffic jams will be accepted as an excuse!

Old China Hands sticking to the sauna in Beijing

On Friday 1 August, another pleasant lunch with around 20 of the hard-core Old China Hands who are sticking it out in Beijing during the oppressing months of July and August. I was just back in time from my Xinjiang trip (more on that later).

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This time Renaat and Susan were back to make sure we were served in an absolute record time. Sigh, our Chinese friends left on their own are still so behind in organizing things, they simply can’t think ahead. Must be the step-by-step syndrome.
Next lunch at Morel’s: Friday 5 September.

Beijing’s vibrant gay nightlife

In Beijing, a lot is possible and going on. You simply have to know. You want to eat Kosher? Uzbekistan? South-African? Belgian? No problem. Anything.
For the nightlife, a LOT goes on, some of it being for the well-informed insiders (and unprintable here).
I have the privilege to live on the “Gongti Strip”, aka as Gongti Xi Lu (Worker’s Stadium West Road). Quiet till 10 pm till all the Ferrari, Lamborghini etc. arrive, the girls with mini-miniskirts, boys smoking and being extra noisy, all on their mobiles and nobody giving a damn about where to walk, park, whatever. Often pretty chaotic as a result. The street, as well as the north door of the Stadium, are full with discos, bars, restaurants. KTV. Even Spas.

The map of the Strip is pretty well done, though venues come and go.
One old-timer is Destination. Over the years it has expanded tremendously to now occupy the whole two floors of the corner building. It is the largest gay bar in town, 99% are local Chinese. Girls are few but welcome. And the place is simply packed, packed, especially the “dance floor” where dancing is not the idea; topless is in, and go-go dancers give some shows. There several separate areas and bars over the two floors, more quiet than the dance floor.
The place is friendly, of course one has to behave as, well, as a bit gay. Or? In the toilets, Lei Feng welcomes you. I said Hi.
Funny to hear that still some Chinese say that “gays are a Western thing, Chinese do not know this”. Yeah, right. Even the emperors had some fun with it. In the past I also was able to visit the lesbian mega-evenings, but the bar moved away from Gongti (and so did the manager who allowed me in!).
In the run-up to the Olympics I had strongly suggested to the authorities NOT to close Destination for whatever lousy reason, to show Beijing’s openness. It did stay open the whole time.